Saturday, March 18, 2006

书呆子

下午时,在出门的路上,忽然问了自己一个问题:如果有钱我回话在哪里?脑里浮现的答案不是车子,不是房子,也不是环游世界。答案竟然是买书和去看舞台剧。

过后经过书城,拿的书局正在联办大减价,将大批的书都排在走廊的中央。看见那上千上万的书籍,心中不禁有一些感慨,觉得自己的学识实在太浅薄了。过不了多久,心里又在浮出了一些想法: 可惜我的生命太短,无法将所有的好书给看完,唉。。。

Monday, March 13, 2006

2002年 5月18日,我的一个好朋友过世了。 那天凌晨,站在他的病床边,看着医生将那生命维持器给去除,朋友走了。心里是多么的不奢,多么的难过。接下来的几天,在他的葬礼,目睹的是他亲戚们的痛哭流泪,他父母的悲伤欲绝。那一幕幕的情景在我心里留下了烙印。

自从那时,我对死有所改观。对于死讯,无论男女老幼,贵贫美丑,相不相识,甚至是罪犯,都多了点感伤,惋惜。经常观察到他人会对一些人的死讯而感叹。不过他们注目的死者一定是年轻的,漂亮的,或是明星名人。而对于那些老的,外貌较差的,学历社会地位较低的,仿佛就像看见一直被踩死的蚂蚁一样,视而无睹。难道前者的生命就比较有价值吗?后者则就死无足惜?每一个人的生命都应是无价的,起码对于死者本身及他的亲人,他的生命比任何人都可贵千万倍。

死有轻如鸿毛,有重于泰山。死要死的有价值,活要活得有意义。最近有闻海蝶元成的过世,虽说是英年早逝,但必竟生前他对于新加坡乐坛的奉献是功不可没的。他一生活在自己的梦想里,做自己热爱的工作, 可以算是没白活了。我也不想白活,虚度一生。

Saturday, March 11, 2006

Bootstrapping

Something which my marketing lecturer said that has stuck with me ever since:

If you can get it for free, don't borrow.
If you can borrow, don't beg.
If you can beg, don't rent.
If you can rent, don't buy 2nd hand.
If you can buy 2nd hand, don't buy 1st hand.

Wednesday, March 01, 2006

Believing a Fake

I am reading a book recently which debunks several things which I had long taken to be the truth. Though the realization of these true "truths" didn't affect me much, a thought struck me, a dilemma in fact...

Should I believe in a falsehood because I feel it benefits me?
Or should I reject it simply because it's not true?

Hmm....

How much honesty is too much?
How much rationale is too much?

Hmm....

How much thinking is too much?